Tuesday, July 7, 2009

A big loss, and some camels

So I'm sure by now you've all heard the big news. Our lives have been kind of turned upside down. It's been hard to deal with. Everyone's talking about it but no one really saw it coming, although I guess it isn't that surprising...but still, it's hard to believe the US soccer team lost to Brazil after being up 2-0 at the half. It will be tough, but I know we can get through this.

Anyway, it's been a crazy couple of weeks here in Peace Corps RIM. Other than the tragic soccer game, there was the minor detail of losing about 1/3 of our class. With the security issues that have been filling nervous parents with terror lately, our country director got permission from PC Washington to offer Interrupted Service. IS basically gives you the benefits of an RPCV without finishing the 2 years, and is generally offered (or sometimes required if a program closes) when there are safety issues in a country. For us, it was a choice, and I'm staying.

Before anyone starts thinking I've totally lost it, let me explain. Keep in mind that this is based on my personal experience, so if there are any parent stalkers out there (including my own!) who have heard other points of view, remember that each person's experience is very different. I do not personally believe that our security situation has changed. Of course there are always risks to living in an underdeveloped country, but there are also risks to living in any major city in the US. Yes, there was an American who got killed in Nouakchott, but the life he led here was very different from ours and he made some very, very different choices that ultimately led to his unfortunate death (he had received several threats before, and continued his work as a Christian missionary in an Islamic Republic). Some people in the North have dealt with unfriendly people and anti-American sentiment, but I have never experienced anything like that. Selibaby (and much of the south in general) loves Peace Corps, and I have a strong network of people who keep me safe there. I feel welcome and useful in my community. I think that if you gave the IS option to all PCVs worldwide at the one year mark, you would have very similar numbers. Two years in a foreign country sounds great in theory, but there are a lot of challenges that go along with it, and some people don't want to be in it for the long haul. I completely respect their choice, but it's not one that appeals to me. So to summarize, don't worry, I'm fine, and I'll see you all in 2010.

Meanwhile, in spite of all of this craziness, we're all trying to continue our normal lives. As a teacher, "normal life" right now means trying to get in as much traveling and time out of site as possible because once the school year starts I'm pretty limited in that. I went up to Nouakchott on the 29th, and after a couple days there headed north with John, Brian and Kristy. We went to Atar, which was very beautiful and so, so different than the south! It has a lot more money, which is evident in every aspect of the city, and the style of buildings is also very different. The next day we went to Chinguetti to visit Carl, who took us all around the city. We walked through the old part of town, which is mostly crumbling ruins dating back to the 1100s (just outside of town there are other ruins buried in sand that date back to the 700s). Chinguetti was a stop along the trade route from Mali to Morocco, and is a really amazing place to visit.

After a day in Chinguetti, the four of us headed out on an overnight camel trek. It was really spectacular. Once you get a little ways out of the city, all you can see is dunes for miles and miles. It's intensely quiet and beautiful experience. Plus, camels are really funny! They remind me a lot of moose, just with big goofy feet and in sand. John's camel was the most ornery of the bunch, and kept making gurgling noises whenever she had to sit down or stand up (and sometimes at random during the trek). The others were pretty friendly. We got to a little oasis around noon (it gets too hot to trek all day), and we spent the afternoon lounging in the shade of date palms. Around 4, John, Brian and I thought it would be cool enough to go sandboarding out on the dunes, but didn't take into account the temperature of the sand (scorching), so we ended up going down a few times and then waiting until almost sunset. Sandboarding is pretty sweet, although the whole carrying the board back up a steep dune part is a pain. Luckily a few kids came to help with that--come on, who can resist a group of toubabs trying to ride a snowboard down a dune?? That's worth carrying a board up a big hill! We spent the night just outside the oasis, lying under the stars. One of our guides made us bread (with just flour and water) that he cooked in hot coals; basically, he shaped a round loaf, got a fire going, then spread the coals out and buried the bread right in them. It was pretty good, and really cool to see it done. We left around 6 the next morning to head back to Chinguetti, and although we were hot, tired and I was down a shoe (a dune ate my flip flop, it got pulled off when I was walking down hill and after searching for about 15 minutes we gave up--it was just gone), we had a fantastic time. Plus, now I can cross "ride a camel" off my list of life goals!

We went back to Atar on the 4th, and after a couple days there headed down to Nouakchott. John and I got back to Kaedi yesterday, and will probably be here for a few days before heading to M'Bout and Selibaby. We both need to get our passports so we'll be ready for our trips in early August--as much as I love it here and am looking forward to heading back to my host family and my little house, I can't wait to see my wonderful family in France in a few weeks! Plus the wine and cheese don't hurt : )

OK, I hope this post finds everyone happy and healthy. Below are links to the pictures from my various travels, so enjoy!

Camel Trek

9 comments:

Allison said...

Thanks for the blog and the pictures! They are awesome! John can also cross something off his list, sandboarding.

Your captions for the pictures are fantastic.

Have a great rest of the month and safe travels!

Judy said...

Great post and unbelievable photos. The camel/moose resemblance is striking - head's much smaller and back much taller, yes, but that same lanky build and generally clumsy appearance.

And the shots of you sandboarding!...your athleticism is so impressive. Get those on Picasso so I can use one for a desktop :-). I'm so glad you took this trip.

I must say, though, I find it interesting that losing one shoe seems to run in the family.

See you in just a few weeks!

Much love,
Didi

Judy said...

hey Emily - this is so incredible, I cant believe that you are actually living like this and did this. Since I tend to live vicariously, when someone I love does something great I feel like I did it too. So all this is a supergift to me.
Your pictures are just astoundingly great, and your blog made me laugh and was also so very real and beautifully said. I know I am reiterating myself but I must - YOU ARE AMAZING!!!
I cant remember my password so I am signing on as Judy but it's really me.
Love, Heidi

Anonymous said...

Hi, Em!
I loved this posting - how articulate you are about the situation - and you don't even like soccer that much.

The pictures made Cheryl, Daniel and I roar with laughter. How exactly DID John get stuck in the sand? What an experience, but I have to say, the poor guys WALKING??? Why can't they ride lead camels? seems a bit unfair to me --- Looks like you've found your new sport, for sure :)

I also want to say that only cool people manage to lose one shoe - you go, girl

And in closing, 4 weeks from right now we will be spending our last eve in Paris before heading to Marseilles - how great is that!!

and one last thing - Billy Jean was definitely the best name of all

xoxoxo
mom

Anonymous said...

hey,
cut off again!
thanks for the guided tour.
excellent shooting. great composition.
enjoy...love and a hug,
#4

Lea said...

Yay for new pictures! And way to sandboard, very different from the last time I saw you on ski-like objects (at which point I hadn't been able to feel my toes for hours...). Missing you so much, big big hugs!!

Unknown said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DEAR EMILY!!!!

Anonymous said...

A little bird told me today is your birthday :)
so here is a big wish for a wonderful birthday and many more.
Love,
Sue
aka John's Grandma

Laura said...

Happy Birthday Emily, a day late (sorry!)
Thanks for the wonderful entertainment with the pictures, though my co-workers are looking a little askance at me sitting in my office laughing uproariously.
And I'm definitely curious about that bread cooked in the coals. To thik I was complaining about a little sand in my smore last weekend on the cape!
Have a great time in France, I'll look forward to hearing all about it. And I also want to say how proud I am of your attitude and understanding about staying with the Peace Corps thru this latest incident. As I've said many times before, you're freakin amazing!
xoxoxoxo Laura